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Helping Someone In Crisis
When your loved one is in crisis it can be scary because you want them to be okay. It is normal to feel panic and fear. The way you respond will make a big difference in their recovery. I'm In CrisisThoughts of suicide, suicide attempts, and death by suicide is no one’s fault. Suicide is the unfortunate result of extreme mental illness, the effects of which compound over time. Often, there is not anything any one person can do to prevent a suicide. However, you have taken the first step in helping your loved one in their time of crisis, which is seeking more information in how to help them. Now that you know what suicide is, know the signs, and have a list of resources you will be better equipped to help your loved one. If you feel you need additional support, please call a crisis lifeline.
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About Suicide
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Warning Signs
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How to Respond
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Crisis Lifelines
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Unfortunately, we do not have a clear answer about what causes suicide. The theory which we ascribe to is the Interpersonal-Psychological Theory of Suicide which suggests that suicide is a three part interaction between feelings of social disconnection (thwarted belongingness), feelings of being a burden to oneself or others (perceived burdensomeness), and the ability to overcome the fear of death (fearlessness about death). Suicide is not selfish, cowardly, or a choice. It is the result of intense psychological distress caused by a psychological disorder. People who die by suicide often do not want to die, and many people who survive attempts report regretting making the attempt almost immediately after they made it. As a close friend or family member, you play an important role in preventing suicide. Therefore, it is important that you consider the warning signs of suicide if you observe abnormal behavior in your loved one. Remember, however, that regardless of the outcome, if your loved one makes a suicide attempt it is not your fault.
If someone talks about:
- Being a burden to others
- Feeling trapped
- Experiencing unbearable pain
- Having no reason to live
- Killing themselves
- Depression
- Loss of interest
- Rage
- Irritability
- Humiliation
- Anxiety
- Increased substance use
- Reckless or aggressive behaviors
- Social withdrawal
- Changes in sleeping patterns
- Saying goodbye to people
- Giving away money or possessions
- Depression
- Bipolar (manic-depressive) disorder
- Schizophrenia
- Borderline or antisocial personality disorder
- Conduct disorder
- Psychotic disorders or symptoms
- Anxiety disorders
- Substance abuse disorders
- Serious or chronic health condition/pain
- Stressful Life Events
- Prolonged stress factors
- Access to lethal means
- Exposure to graphic suicide accounts
- Previous suicide attempts
- Family history of suicide attempts
- Remain calm, non-judgemental, and supportive
- Communicate your concern and love for that person
- Avoid using terms like “selfish” or “did you think about how would I feel?”
- Communicate how important they are to you, and that their loss would be devastating to you
- Tell them that you will be with them every step of the way
- Help them find the resources they need, such as a therapist or a crisis lifeline
- Sit down together and create a safety plan or download this app
- Work together to restrict access to means such as their personal firearms, medications, household poisons (e.g., drain cleaner), heavy ropes, etc. until they feel safe again
- Take them to the nearest emergency room if they feel like they might make an attempt
In the United States
In Canada
Outside of the United States and Canada
- Transgender Lifeline – 1-877-565-8860
- National Suicide Prevention Lifeline – 1-800-273-8255 or Online Chat
- The Trevor Project (LGBTQ Youth 13-24) – 1-866-488-7386 or Text or Online Chat
In Canada
Outside of the United States and Canada
Please be advised. Our online crisis pages are meant to be a free service to connect those in crisis with organizations who can provide 24/7 crisis help. Additionally, these pages are not intended to replace professional help, but rather provide tips as to where anyone should start in seeking crisis help. We are not equipped to provide live crisis help. If you contact us for crisis help, it may be days before anyone responds. Darcy Jeda Corbitt Foundation and MyTransitionPartner do not vet the resources we provide on this website. We cannot guarantee the helpfulness or quality of the external resources we provide. Content on the links provided are reflective of the opinions and experience of the content's author. Linked external pages do no imply endorsement.
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